Intimidation in ringing |
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What I am talking about is "Intimidation", making folk feel timid, belittling. |
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York |
In the Statement from YMSCR: 17th December 2016. I feel the YMSCR Statement is clearly wrong. The YACR (Yorkshire Association of Change Ringers) meeting
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Elsewhere |
Intimidation is NOT restricted to the York ringers. Some of the nicest people can say the most intimidating things. |
Me a victim |
I have felt intimidation in most of my ringing career, I could say I am used to it. |
Complaining |
There is no complaint mechanism in the ringing community, perhaps I am to blame for not
standing up and saying that I do not find those remarks acceptable. |
Progression |
Ringers have commented that to advance their ringing skills they need to put up with
the intimidation and bullying. |
Drop Outs |
I wonder how many folk have dropped out of ringing due to intimidation. |
Exciting ??? |
Now some people respond to intimidation, find it motivating. |
Bullying |
There can be a progression from "banter" to intimidation, to bullying. One aspect of "Intimidation" is what I call "peacocking", public loud pronouncements not only belittling the receiver but enhancing the perpetrator's public standing, often accompanied by reinforcing laughter from those around. |
A scared Conductor |
Sometimes a conductor may chose to intimidate one ringer, intending to correct a problem with another ringer who he feels cannot take criticism One example I have hear told The in Stedman, conductor shouts "George you are dodging 5/6 with the 4th", then repeats louder, then louder and really furiously George was actually ringing correctly, but the ringer of the 4th was completely off the
method. Now I think that there has to be a better way, even if George knew what it was all about, the rest of the band heard George being abused. |
Responding |
So, listen out in your tower. Do you hear unacceptable interactions? Is it time to reject intimidation from ringing? |
Forward ? |
Finally where is “encouragement” in all this, a little “well done”, “great effort” or a “thank you”. |